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home, world traveler in the gold biz. Five weeks of online chat was leading to our meeting after his trip overseas. Upon his departing even sent roses so that I would ‘think about him while he was away.’ And of course during that trip he lost luggage and ultimately asked that I send a laptop to south africa so he could complete business and get home. There were many signals along the way Alt Friend Frinder life, the only difference being that online weird can be creepy. I’m not sure I would blame the site for this entirely, but I would definitely blame them for their “matching principles.” I am a very educated woman and explicitly asked to be matched with men who have a bachelor’s degree or higher. I ended up with lots of people without any formal education! For the rest I liked their four-play Alt Friend Frinder Date December 23, 2008 permalink Visit JDate I have been on and off jdate since it began. I am now 56 and the quality of men in my age group is horrible. This is an exhausting process and for the young people who are on please be careful. You do not fall in love with a picture or a voice and long distance does not work. I had a man stalking me on line and with texting…we had never met. Alt Friend Frinder week may not work this week. Most women aren’t going to take out the time, to find the ways that manipulate Match.com’s system. As far as free deals for women go, the only free deals you may see is, buy 1 month get 1 free. Is this really free? “No”. I have not seen any free deals for ladies on any personals website, in years. I want to touch on the, “men not reading the profile” subject. Alt Friend Frinder

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to show how much she cared for him. The only problem was the woman was really one of those (Nigerian?) con men that scam people ALL THE TIME. An astute viewer pointed out that the pictures were of a professional model who showed off a lot more than her face. A lot of dating websites have that problem! A key problem with the service is that are just too many men-seeking-women using it. Match.com AdutFriendFinder I obviously removed my profile after this experience, have put a stop on any credit card payments, and am filing a complaint against them with the Better Business Bureau. I have not doubt that the guy online was an impersonator preying on unsuspecting wealthy women and paying a subscription to Chemistry. This is the reason why they don’t want to investigate, nor take action against him. AdutFriendFinder fun by dining out, watching movies, going to sporting events. I looking for someone similar-minded, drama-free, who can make me laugh and be my best friend.” So what do most people base their decision off of then? The person’s looks. Needless to say, this is not the best way to find your soul mate. A couple things J-date can do to rectify this situation. 1. Don’t allow people to create a AdutFriendFinder as if you are on all day! I contacted match about this, and they agreed that it is set up this way but say they can’t do anything about it. I know better. Here is how to get around this. Do not sign on to match just to check email or winks. Do that through your email account. You don’t even have to sign on to look at profiles. If you click on a profile and it tells you to sign on, just click AdutFriendFinder

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perfect. I’ve been on the other sites (yahoo, plenty of loosers, True, J-Date, American Singles, matchdoctor…which I like to call match pervert, etc..) I have found match.com to be the best dating site out there. Give it a chance. Reviewed By A Washington Sex Female Rating ***** Date September 23, 2008 permalink Visit Match.com I have been on match for 4 months and am extremely disappointed. AdultFrirndFinder chance-there wasn’t much to tweak except make sure my match location radius was made most important on the scale-it already was-I was to give it another 2 weeks and then call back-I waited one week and tried to cancel and they don’t give refunds, so I called my credit card company and disputed-they didn’t deliver as promised-after 3 months I finally got my money back. stay away from chemistry.com, AdultFrirndFinder If you know how to decipher someone’s profile, its easy to come up with winners. Of course the first thing to go by is the photo. A well written profile is a must. If a person is a boring writer then it’s a no brainier that they will be just the same in person. Two absolute turn offs were: “Just as comfortable in jeans as in a night gown” and the kiss of death “Live, Love, Laugh”! Once the AdultFrirndFinder cynical. 3. Always remember, it is them; not you. The thoughtless person who cannot respond kindly to a warm, sincere human being is revealing everything there is to know about who they are and what kind of mate they will be. With that said I am reminded of the scene in Woody Allen’s “Annie Hall”. Woody is walking down a New York street and eyes a couple strolling along, apparently deeply AdultFrirndFinder

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or just plain unattractive. My next venture will be speed dating where I can actually see the people first…not that looks are everything but for godsakes there has to be some kind of physical attraction. Don’t waste your money on this flakey website unless you want to be associated with a bunch of flakey people. Reviewed By Marc of Indiana Indiana Sex Male Rating ***** Date September 23, Adultfunder their program to send me matches that did. I also told them that if they were not able to provide matches based on my preferences to cancel my account and credit my credit card, I had only been on the site for 5 days and they had not sent one appropriate match. Chemistry’s response was to cancel my account. They assured me that I could use the site for the rest of the period I signed up Adultfunder everything, but come on. I’ve had better luck on Match… but not as many Jewish guys are on there. I agree with the previous poster who said real members should be able to tell if you’re not a member. I’ve tried to put that in my profile, but Big Brother at Jdate removes it. I understand why, to a degree, but maybe if the site didn’t suck so bad people wouldn’t have to sneak off to Facebook Adultfunder for a real relationship. So, in reviewing men’s profiles, I decided that being overweight is not a sin. I sent winks and e-mails to a few men whose photos maybe were not the most attractive or flattering, and to some without photos. After weeding out a few creeps through e-mails and phone calls, I met several and discovered that most were much more attractive in person than their photo portrayed. Adultfunder

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idea what’s behind that face. So, I think on-line dating just needs a different set of rules. Since you get to know about the “inside” online, you need to proceed directly to the “outside” asap, because that is really important too….you’ll be looking at it for a very long time, if it works out. As an airline employee, I was able and ready to fly to meet people, which I did many times and Aduly Freind Finder had even copied parts of his website to discuss his “work”! Additionally, after I had cooled off the contact and had not logged on for a couple of weeks because I was out of town on business, I discovered that the guy had changed his age on his profile by 5 years! The picture of his “home” looked suspiciously like coming from a real estate ad! I immediately reported him to Chemistry because Aduly Freind Finder And with so many people on J-Date, on of them might actually like me, I imagine. Or… b) My messages aren’t even getting through to these people. As I said before, like many other dating sites, J-Date doesn’t make you pay in order to make a profile. I believe that the reason a lot of people make profiles on there is because J-Date restricts visitors to only viewing a couple of profiles, Aduly Freind Finder up once, and had some interesting e-mails conversations with people I’ve come to believe never had any intention of coming out from behind their computer screens. I plan on continuing at least through the end of the year because I do think you can meet someone on Match, it’s just a matter of putting the effort in and not getting discouraged if success doesn’t happen right off the bat. I Aduly Freind Finder

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the profiles are not active members so basically all they can do is wink. That is a scam right there…they might as well be fake profiles as you cannot communicate with them. Then they also automatically rebill you so make sure you cancel after subscribing or use a different method of payment. The genious behind getting you to resubscribe is they send you an email stating that someone has AdultftiendFinder is misleading with their matches because they do not inform the paying members the likelihood of being matched with someone they cannot communicate with. When I communicated with Chemistry I was told to broaden my profile. I believe this site is a scam and I will not resubscribe when my membership is up. Reviewed By Mike Vero Beach, Fl. Sex Male Rating ***** Date June 25, 2010 permalink AdultftiendFinder way to join for a month unless you send a check (who uses checks anymore, seriously?) And, given the repulsive creeps who do try to contact me every time I innocently go on there to peruse matches, update my profile or consider joining, I have serious trepidation about wasting the $40 bucks or whatever it is, only to be harassed by pervs. If I wanted that, I’d go to the local dive bar on AdultftiendFinder upon the magic that is true love and the mysterious chemistry that completes our life’s purpose. hang on tight and never let go. Reviewed By Sherry Seattle area Sex Female Rating ***** Date August 04, 2005 permalink Visit Match.com It’s discouraging to read all the negative comments on this site. As for me, I went in with low expectations, having been on Match previously several years ago AdultftiendFinder

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and when you meet they look alot older then their pictures. I have also noticed that most are recently divorced or first time online dating so they are having fun getting lots of attention and are not serious. I am a very attractive successful 40 year old woman and have had 5,000 views so far but maybe 10 actual emails back and forth. Then there are the winkers…My belief is that 90% of AdultFruendFinder I live in the DC area and 50 miles is actually quite large. The matches that were within my radius never responded to my “interest” and it turns out that there are members that have never subscribed and join on the free weekends. You cannot communicate with those individuals, but you don’t know that. I believe those are the men I was matched with. The key point to this review is that Chemistry AdultFruendFinder 05, 2009 permalink Visit JDate The only reason I’m rating this two stars and not one is because I never actually joined Jdate…but before you dismiss my review, let me tell you why. If you’re not a member, people can still IM you. And every time I get online… and accept an IM… some slimeball starts trying to talk dirty three lines in. This has happened at least six times. There is no AdultFruendFinder internet. And yet, it is more difficult to find a mate now than it was 50 years ago in a quiet, small town. Why? There are many beautiful people on the internet. They should be able to attract a husband or wife on looks alone. It isn’t their outside that is unattractive so it must be their inside. This area can’t be shaped up with Bowflex or a treadmill. So when you are blessed to stumble AdultFruendFinder